It makes me sad that people define themselves by the name they are given. I am not talking about their birth names but rather throughout ones lifetime they become a sister, a brother, a mother, a dad, a wife, a husband, a friend, a girlfriend or a boyfriend. And in that time they define themselves by that name.
When you define yourself by that name you give up the other parts of you that make you more than just that. And if you’re someone who finds their only comfort in that name, I hope you find the parts of you that were there before you became that, because every little piece of you is better than just a part.